When you are the victim of a cheater, your first response will be denial. You don’t want to be in this position! How could this happen to you? But the more time goes on, the more signs you will see. Knowing the signs of an unfaithful wife will help you confront her in the long run.
She spends a lot of time out with her girlfriends. She used to go out with them every now and then, but now it seems like every other day. She’s also very secretive about where she goes, or tells you she doesn’t know where they are going to meet up, even as she walks out the door!
Her girlfriends might be covering for her. They are allowing her to rendezvous with a lover. Pay attention to the nights she goes out, and make notes about what she says when she comes home. Did she go to a movie? Which one? What did she think of it? If she doesn’t quite know how to answer, chances are she wasn’t spending time in the dark with a film.
The mileage on the car racks up, and suddenly her vacation days at work seem to have dwindled. She might be getting dressed for work and leaving the house, only to drive to the next town over to visit with her lover. She has been taking days off work to be with him! Check into her sick days and vacation time, and if you see something unaccounted for, make a note of it.
She comes home smelling of cigarettes when she doesn’t smoke. She smells of someone’s cologne, and it’s definitely not yours. Or she comes home without panties underneath her dress, and it’s not typical of her to leave the house without underthings. Where did she leave them, and who has them now?
Her appearance changes. She gets her hair done in a new style. She keeps her nails manicured and her makeup soft. She smells great all the time. She wears soft, pretty dresses instead of severe suits. She takes much better care of herself, from hitting the gym more often to getting facials every week at the salon.
She’s trying to look good for someone…who is he?
If your wife is cheating, you will catch her. It’s a matter of keeping your eyes and ears open to the little things about her. What has changed? What is happening that she can’t explain?
Makes notes of everything. Remember, this is just the start. What others signs should you be looking for in order to catch your unfaithful wife red-handed?
