If you believe that your wife is having an affair, start by looking at the information provided compared with your particular situation.
Personal Appearance – Typically, a wife having an affair will begin to pay close attention to her personal appearance. For instance, she may begin working out and dieting to lose weight, she might start going to the tanning salon, perhaps she is having her nails and hair done more often or differently, or she may take great interest in clothing.
Daily Behavior – Behavior is another way in which you might confirm a cheating wife. As an example, you may notice your wife getting up and leaving for work earlier, taking an extended lunch, wanting to spend more time with the “girlfriends”, and so on. Again, while not confirmation of an affair, this is one of the signs.
Finances – If you notice your wife spending money on frivolous things, dining out more, or making credit card purchases for small gift items, you might ask why.
Phone Call Tip-Offs – A cheating wife may spend more time on the phone, want more privacy while on the phone, or have an increase in wrong numbers when she answers.
Car Clues – If you find the wife is now keeping the car clean, removing infant seats, perhaps you find cigarette ashes or butts in the ashtray, or even the miles do not coordinate with typically daily travel, it could be a sign of foul play.
Sex – A common change with women who are cheating is that are no longer interested in sex with the husband. When intimacy does occur, she may be more experimental or seem completely distracted.
Eating Habits – Often, a cheating wife will work hard to get into shape and lose weight, thus making her more appealing to men. Therefore, if you notice she is seriously dieting or spending significant time in the gym, specifically if this were something she normally did not do, you could be suspicious.
Home Invasion – Although not all cheating spouses bring the person in the affair into the home, some do. For careful attention if you begin to notice personal items that are not yours, different fragrances and smells, leftover plates or glasses for two, and so on.
Computer – An excellent way for a cheating wife to keep in touch with her lover is via computer. If you do not know how to access her email, you can check the history to determine the different websites visited. Simply paying attention to her time on the computer but without her knowing is a great way to see if she is in fact communicating with another man, or perhaps woman.
Cell Phones – Again, women will often communicate via cell phone rather than home phone, believing the calls are safe. However, start by determining if time spent on the cell phone is more than usual. Then, call the cell phone company to request a printout of incoming and outgoing numbers associated with her phone. From there, you can check to see if any of those calls are made at odd hours or are frequently called.
